Not everything works out

We received a message through a local internet site. It was the woman who was doing the contacting and she had a partner. She was keen to have sex with another woman. They had paid for sex once before but hoped they could meet someone to have another shared experience. Elle assured her that all was good and we arranged a meeting. We did our usual set-up and dress up and waited. Eventually the couple arrived. The woman was stunning. She was dressed in a sheer purple blouse with her black bra clearly visible. Her husband was far more reserved. We talked for awhile but we sensed all was not well. We let them have a chat by themselves at our suggestion. He was unhappy about me seeing his wife nude and having sex so did not want to take it further. They were apologetic, especially the woman, and left. Our reflection was that they had a few things to talk about between themselves. The woman really wanted to experiment and break loose sexually. Maybe there was unhappiness in there somewhere.

Paying for sex

Yes, we have paid for sex. And in just about every experience it has been very good. It has been an easy way to find another woman. Our usual method has been to search the adult services in the news paper. We have had someone come to us as well as go to a residence or several times to a spa and relaxation centre. We have always tried to find women close to our age. There is a bias to younger women but there are some good experienced people out there who know the ropes.

It was a cool Saturday evening but we were horny. We saw an ad for a mature woman who massaged couples and made a booking. She arrived a bit later and was wearing a body hugging black stretch dress. We went into the lounge and stood near the heater as it was cold. Elle was keen to get into it and walked up beside her and started caressing her body. It wasn't long before Elle had slid the string shoulder straps of the woman's dress off, bared her breasts, and was playing with the woman's nipples. They were the longest nipples we had ever seen. Soon the woman was down to her G-string and Elle had stripped nude and, of all things, put the woman's slinky dress on. We were chatting about threesomes. What had happened. She described a previous appointment with clients. She had been booked by a woman for her husbands birthday. The guy had been made to sit on the chair secured by pantihose around his wrists while the two women had sex in front of him. Hearing this made us horny so we all went to the bedroom. We were all on the bed and had sex together. I fucked Elle while the woman watched us. Then the woman invited me to fuck her (with protection of course) and Elle was ok with that. A good time was had by all.

In a later meeting with a couple, the woman disclosed that they had paid for sex to have their first threesome with another woman. She was wildly adventurous but that was not matched by her partner. Our encounter was one of those times when things didn't work out. Overall though, we have had great times. Mind you we are bit poorer for it!

Popping the question!

So you meet a couple and are getting on well. It may be a café or a pub. You cant have sex there so some questions need to be asked. Do you want to come back to our place? Do you want to get intimate? It's a question that needs asking!

We had met J and L through a personal ad in an arty sort of paper. They were partners but did not live together. We arranged to meet at a café and once we met up we got on well. J, the guy appeared nervous and did a lot of talking but didn't seem to want to ask us about getting together. L seemed to be more open. Eventually we popped the question. Would they like to come back to our place and watch Elle and I caress and massage each other. When I said this I realised that the couple on the next table had heard what I had said. It added to the excitement.

L was an immediate starter and that got the night rolling. We went home and set up on the lounge room floor with a blanket, cushions, candles and music. Elle and I began a slow dance whilst J and L watched while sitting on the lounge. We danced slowly and ran our hands over each other and began to undress. Then I stood behind Elle who was now wearing just her bra and g-string. I began to explore Elle’s breasts and pubic mound while J and L watched. Then L and J began to get into the swing of things. L moved and sat in front of J. J began by cupping L’s small shapely breasts and then allowed his hands to go up under her red jumper. She turned to face him and it wasn’t long before her jeans were undone and slightly pulled down. Elle and I could see the back of a brief black g-string and when she took her jumper off we saw the straps of a black mesh bra. L had certainly come dressed for sex in some hot lingerie.

Elle and I continued to strip and soon were on the floor naked. J and L joined us and we watched them. We realised that they began fucking with J laying on top of L. J had a big cock and we could see it sliding in an out of L’s pussy. J then leaned over and cupped Elle’s breasts and then kissed her nipples. I leaned over and kissed L. She gave tight probing tongue kisses. After awhile L got on top of J and rode him, leaning over to kiss Elle. She wasn’t afraid of being bi with another woman! J could not hold on any longer and with a groan emptied himself into L and flaked back. She remained on top of him for awhile and then hopped off .

They continued to caress and we also took the opportunity to come to orgasm as they watched. We continued in the same way for awhile enjoying L sitting astride J. Eventually our time came to an end.

It was very pleasant evening! We were glad we popped the question!

Bisexuality...or just sexuality?

Elle always enjoyed sexual experiences with other women. She would often talk about women she had met and several who she worked with. One in particular she lusted after, often talking about the woman's buttocks in tight black pants and her desire to touch them. One time we were invited to dinner by one of the woman and her husband. We were open to having sex but it didn't go that way.

In nearly every swinging encounter we had, Elle and the other woman would have sexual contact such as kissing, mutual nipple sucking and playing with each others clitoris. The other thing she loved was the double dildo with another woman. Elle did not think she was gay, although she would say she was bisexual. She really actually identified as sexual as she went for it in any way.

For a long time I never had any deliberate contact with men. One day, however, we met the Caravanners. We arrived home just as they turned up. The guy was in a robe - on the street. We quickly got inside. The woman was a bit more modest but it wasn't long before she had stripped to a black bustier and G-string. We had a drink and then started getting physical. Soon we were nude and Elle and the woman were pleasuring each other while we watched. The woman was looking at us and wondering what we were doing. The guy had quite a large erect cock so I took the plunge and took in in my hand. The woman looked approvingly at me. I stepped a little closer and allowed my cock to touch his and rub together. It was a small adventurous step but a pleasurable one.

Going that bit further...

They were a bit out there, this couple, J and C. We met online and they were keen to get sexy. They wanted to come to the back door of our place and have us watch J giving C oral sex outside to begin our time together.

We did just as they asked. we met them at the back door. J had raised C's skirt and licking her clitoris. Coming inside we went to the lounge room. C didn't have any knickers on and soon J had his cock deep in C's vagina fucking as she laid back on the couch. We watched and were getting turned on. We then moved to the bedroom and undressed. They were keen to get photos so they posed in a number of different ways. . I photographed them fucking in a few sex positions as well as Elle and C. Elle and C started to fuck each other using the double ended dildo and were stimulating each other with a vibrator and sucking each others nipples. I photographed Elle and C with their vagina lips around the dildo. We were soon playing with each others partners. J was playing with Elle. Although we had intended a soft swing, J had entered Elle with his cock.

Realising this, C said to me; you can fuck me if you like. C knelt above me and I positioned my erect cock at the opening of her vagina. Then I lifted my hips and entered her vagina with my erect penis, slowly moving in and out of her. Her wet cunt lips surrounded my cock shaft. We agreed that the guys would not orgasm in each others partners but we enjoyed the sex.

Shared Orgasms

So you enjoy others watching you? How about watching another couple. Watching her take him into her. Maybe missionary or doggie or her on top? This is a night I remember:

We had spent the afternoon preparing for an evening of erotic and sensual pleasure in our home. We had warmed the rooms, prepared the food, bought drinks, and finally readied ourselves for the arrival of R and A. We dressed normally but both of us had hot underwear on. We knew that we would probably have sex together. We had met though an on-line site then talked on the phone. We had chatted to R and knew something about them but there was always the first meeting and the impressions that it generated. We sat in a mixture excitement and nervousness waiting for their guests to arrive. What would this couple be like? Would we get on together? What sort of things would happen? Elle and I were only a few minutes away from finding out. We popped the cork of a bottle of bubbly, poured themselves a drink and waited.

We heard a knock and Elle volunteered to go to the door. R and A had arrived. It was the right address! They were a bit cautious. They went out to the car to get their belongings. I came into the passage to welcome them as well. A hand of welcome was offered and we all made their way down the passage, guiding R and A to the spare bedroom where they could put their bags. Then we went into the warm lounge and began chatting. There were nibbles, and drinks were poured. Soon everybody was chatting and getting along.

Hunger seemed to be a common theme so soon both couples sat at the table. R and A had brought along an exotic rice dish which we complemented with some stir fry vegetables. We ate, talking about ourselves and our sensual experiences that had led them to this moment.

While they were eating R went off and retrieved a small photo album and handed it to me. I opened it up and admired the photos of A dressed and semi dressed in exotic costumes and lingerie. I admired her shapely body which I anticipated seeing in the flesh fairly soon.

After the plates had been emptied there was a slight lull and somehow it seemed the right time to make a move. We all moved to the lounge. R and A were also carrying a small basket. A removed her loose top and revealed a black body hugging top and a glimpse of a red bra. The colour took me by surprise. It was very sexy. Elle and I arranged ourselves so we could watch R and A put on a show. Some sensual music was put on and Elle and I waited with excited anticipation.

R and A started by kissing and caressing. R's hands eventually moving to cup A’s breasts. While I watched I allowed my hands to roam over Elle’s shoulders, down over her breasts, eventually feeling the buds of her excited nipples pushing through the lace of her bra.

The sensuous activity was accelerating quickly as R helped A remove her black top revealing a see through red mesh bra. Held in the bra cups were A’s delightfully shaped breasts, each adorned with a cute bud like nipple. If there were three things that I found exciting, they were the colour red, see through fabric and nipples. We matched the actions of R and A as Elle removed her top. R and A then caught sight of Elle’s black lace bra and looked at it admiringly. Shirts, skirts, pants and leggings were soon discarded and all the players were now in underclothing.  I was sitting in  a lounge chair in my black g-string and Elle was leaning back between my legs wearing just her bra and G-string. R and A were now moving together, bodies sliding against each other with R and A now revealing A's sexy red underwear fully to us. A was feline, moving fluidly in time to the music allowing R to feel her body against him.

The raw display of eroticism by R and A was turning us on. We wanted more carnal pleasure so I unclipped and removed Elle’s bra revealing her breasts to R and A. Elle was sitting on the floor between my legs and I started playing with Elle's nipples. They were watching us. R, decided to reveal A's breasts He was unfamiliar with clip on A’s front opening bra, could not open it so Elle, encouraged by R and myself, walked over to A wearing only her g-string. Fumbling a little bit, Elle released A’s restrained breasts and discarded her bra. Both the women were nearly naked. A reached out and lightly brushed one of Elle’s bare breasts and touched Elles' nipple. Soon the women were caressing each others orbs followed by full chest contact allowing their nipples to make contact.

I was now keen to remove the firm lycra that was containing my hardening cock. All I had was a g-string as well. I got up and walked over to Elle and A. Elle bent over and began sucking on A’s left breast. I joined her on the other one gently tonguing the reddening nipple stalk. The three of us were down to minimal underwear. Then Elle and I removed our g-strings and sat back to watch R and A who removed their briefs. Now we were all nude and getting aroused. We had let go of our modesty and were now free to masturbate while we watched. R had a bead of pre-cum on the tip of his cock and whispered to us that A was wet. A knelt down and took R into her mouth, sucking him to erection. His cock was meaty and firm.

Then A pulled another dress up surprise from her bag. She slipped into a patterned g-string that accentuated her body perfectly. It was cut high on the hip and emphasized the deep attractive line of her pubic mound. A’s buttocks were also outlined by the curve of the thong. Now she had a gold chain around her waist and pearls cascading over her chest. R found a leather loincloth and, excited by the dressing up, we encouraged A to try on a blue mesh g-string bikini that Elle owned. A put on the top first and then the bottom. Her delightful body was a perfect foil for the sexy swimsuit.

We had all enjoyed this time but our sexual desires were still yet to be satisfied. Everybody was naked and wanted to go to the next level. We all walked to the bedroom and moved closer to having sex. We lay down next to R and A who had been separated for a week, having some understanding of the yearning they felt for each other. Beginning by kissing with A on top it wasn’t long before she guided his hard cock into her vagina. I could see that A had taken him deeply, sitting astride him, his hard shaft disappearing into her moist vagina lips. R’s balls framed by A's shapely thighs. We were eager to join them sharing such pleasure so we scissored. Elle guided my hard cock into her vagina allowing us to slowly fuck while we watched R and A to move in union next to us. R and A then swapped positions and we watched R’s thick shaft enter A from above. Rhythmically he moved, his cock easily seen when he lifted his hips. A lifted her knees to take A more deeply. We knew that such intense pleasure would soon result in mixing of milky love juices inside A. Both of them kept their eyes closed and heads tilted back in pleasure until R exploded, releasing his cum into A with deep and loud moans of pleasure. She too moaned in pleasure as he came in her. Then they then curled over and lay in their sides in the blissful repose of lovers.

We were keen to feel the same sensation of pleasure so we moved to the edge of the bed. I entered Elle from behind and then after a while moved on top until I too shared my seed with Elle, spurting my semen, her warm vagina receiving all I had to offer.

All of us had now made the journey from the first erotic moments of their time together to the crescendo of shared orgasm. It was a journey that fulfilled all our deepest yearnings and we would definitely meet again.

Who's coming?

Coming - orgasm. Yours or someone elses' - male, female, both. It will happen sometime. You will come while other people are with you.

Being there while someone else has an orgasm. Guy, girl or both. They vary a lot in intensity and sound. It won't be your orgasm or your partners but another couple and you will probably get off on it - enjoy!

Exhibitionism

I guess many of us, deep down are exhibitionists. Exhibitionism is a big part of swinging. We want to be seen, seen nude, seen having sex. You may have stood in front of a window or had sex where people could see. Perhaps revealing clothing is part of your thing. You will ask people to watch you having sex and they will ask you to watch them.

We had met up with a couple, similar age to us, and had a shared sexual experience. Later they got in contact as the woman's health was poor explaining why they couldn't meet again. We eventually discovered she had passed away but out of the blue we had a call from the guy. He had a new partner, not really interested in a shared experience but asked could they come and watch us? Would we be open to having sex while they watched? We said yes, of course, so one afternoon they came down and made themselves comfortable on the lounge. We began stripping and eventually were naked in front of them. We made ourselves comfortable on the floor using a quilt and proceeded to have sex while they looked on. At one particular time we looked towards them. I had my cock in deep in Elle and said so. They laughed as they knew we were sharing that moment. Suffice to say it was a pleasant afternoon!

How do you meet someone?

So you want to have sex with other people. You want to swing. But how and where? To tell you the truth we tried a number of ways. Some interstate friends one night. Personal ads in local papers. The Internet, a swingers club, a pickup at a nude swim night, and yes we have paid for a partner as well. All have their plusses and minuses. The experiences have varied. We started out soft swinging and got a bit more adventurous as we got along. Arranging catch ups with people you do not know can be tedious. In the end things tend to work out. Some meet ups will be productive, others not so. There are quite a few who think they want to try a shared sexual experience, guys especially, going the full distance is another thing. It's great when it happens!

The first step.

To begin. It was when we were forty. Married for a few years, we were the sort of people that liked getting naked on a beach. We often talked about other people that we found sexually attractive. Sometimes we did things that were edgy, or we thought so, leaving our underwear off, having sex on the beach at night, that sort of stuff. Always the next step beckoned us. We wondered about a third person, maybe a massage. We found a Tantra teacher who did massage. We were going to go together but I chickened out. Nevertheless Elle took the plunge with another woman for the first time. She loved it and wanted more. It ended with Elle having her clitoris stroked by the masseuse. Elle wanted her to undress and get more intimate but she would not join in.

A male friend came around one day. He was gay and used to supplement his income by doing male massage. He sometimes chatted about his experiences. He had mentioned previously that he had massaged a woman while her partner watched. It was if he was inviting us to do the same. We talked about it and found the idea very attractive and arousing. We especially were keen having sex while being watched. The opportunity came soon enough.

It was a Saturday lunchtime. Our friend dropped by for a chat and coffee. We talked Elle wanted our friend to know about her massage. She told our friend about the naked massage with the other 

woman. I found myself getting turned on and then eventually I popped the question. Would he massage us, and more excitingly, would he prepared to watch us having sex? We wanted to let go of our inhibitions and have someone present as we fucked. Of course, our friend said, he would love to watch us.

Well it didn't take long before we were in the bedroom. We took of our clothing without any hesitation. Our friend could see us both - Elles breasts, nipples and pussy. I was a bit conscious about having an erection with a gay man present. In a later encounter with another couple I did have a guy to guy experience and enjoyed it. We had said it was massage only so we got into it. Tom took it in turns to massage us. I loved it when he massaged Elles breasts and played with her oiled nipples. Then he watched us as we gave each other oral. Eventually I inserted my hard penis into Elle's vagina as Tom watched. We began fucking. We were absolutely aroused and eventually we both orgasmed. It broke the ice. We dressed and went and had a coffee. Sex for us would never be the same. Now would have a string of sexual partners, male and female and enjoy every moment. Not only would we ask others to watch us having sex, we would watch them, touch and arouse them...and fuck them as well.